Financial Domination is a very real type of fetish in which a submissive, receives pleasure, or an arousing thrill from giving control of their finances to a Dominant. When you put Financial, and Domination together, you can see how this is where the term FinDom, the more common name for this fetish comes from. The Female Dominant in this fetish is typically refereed to as a FinDomme.
Common names used for the submissive male in this fetish would be finsub, money slave, pay pig, money pig, wallet slave, pay pet, and atm slave among others, which can all be used as a part of the play involved in this type of Domination and submission. Some men are very turned on by and seek out a FinDomme because they are excited by submitting so completely.
What occurs within any Financial Domination dynamic/relationship varies greatly, just as any other Dominant/submissive relationship. It can be anything from paying a small cash tribute to the Dominant weekly, or monthly, to purchasing expensive gifts from an online wish list, or possibly personally taking her on shopping trips. There may also be a budget enforced controlling the submissive’s income, living expenses, and all spending.
A financial submissive willingly gives tributes to their FinDomme consisting of most, if not all of their disposable income. This is done under their own free will because they derive a level of pleasure in the knowledge that they are making their FinDomme happy, and her life easier while giving him purpose and meaning to his own life.
Typically what the finsub finds arousing about this fetish is not popular with the mainstream conception of a fetish that is based on sexuality because Financial Domination is not about sex at all. To be honest it is not even really about the money. This is about the exchange of power and control.
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